I get lots of questions on masturbation most
especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is
no debate on that. I’m not here to argue about
who masturbates most, I need to deal with a
S3xual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it
stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and
the hear says about s3x.
Masturbation is fondling your genitals consistently
to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their clitoris
while guys rub, massage or caress their p3nis.
I decided to give explicit explanation because some
ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies
especiallly non-virgins use candles, banana, small
bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a
penis and do solo s3x (having s3x by yourself).
From teenage upward, you will have a strong
desire for s3x. It’s a sure sign you are normal and
capable of having and enjoying s3x in marriage. In
your 20s, it will be stronger and intense! You may
wake up feeling horny for no single reason in the
world or go hot on spotting a curvy lady! You may
start noticing shapes and curves and you have to
shake your head several times to keep the image
off. You may get worked up on watching a
romantic movie and discharge something. You
check up and discover you are wet. All these are
normal, you haven’t committed any sin.
So what then do you do when you get hot and
horny? Have s3x? I know you know my answer and
some singles will never be caught dead sleeping
around, so what do they do? They masturbate!
They give themselves release and pleasure through
solo s3x while claiming virginity at the same time.
Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way
Let me explain:
1. Masturabation is not done in isolation. It is
done with the image of someone in mind. It can be
a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a
crush, someone you like but incapable of having.
You imagine having s3x with them while
masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION
2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects,
you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also
introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It
will be very difficult to convince your future partner
that you never had s3x with man except objects
during your solo s3x.
3. You kill your ability to enjoy s3x in future.
Millions of women don’t enjoy s3x in marriage
which leads to s3xual frustration, adultery,
lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting
orgasm by yourself, you won’t be able to get it
from your husband. If you are used to objects in
your private part, you won’t have feelings for your
husband’s p3nis. You will always think of
something harder, bigger, longer, larger and
completely unrealistic! Women who complain their
husbands’ p3nis are too small didn’t marry as
virgins. They must have been promiscous as
4. You will not have a good s3x life as a man. You
will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your
wife won’t enjoy you leading to acute sexual
frustration in marriage. You need self control to
fully enjoy s3x and give your wife maximum s3xual
pleasure. A woman enjoys s3x when the man can
go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating.
Because you are used to instant release from
masturbation, you may not be able to go more
than a minute before exploding leaving your wife
completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may
close up, become frigid and stop having s3x
altogether which may lead to you having an affair,
she having an affair or both of you having an affair.
Self control before marriage helps you enjoy s3x to
the maximum. You are able to delay ejaculation,
go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm
while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why
total virginity pays!
5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you
may have serious problem with delayed/ retarded
ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for
several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What
is the benefit of s3x without orgasm? Rough
masturbation with your hands kills your ability to
feel/enjoy s3x with your wife. It is hell for a woman
to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable
to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant?
It’s the reason some women are seemingly
“barren” and can’t talk to anybody out of
embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves
the woman sore, frustrated and hating s3x
altogether. You have so much to lose s3xually
when you masturbate. Abstaining from this
degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident,
have normal s3xual intercourse and enjoy the
pleasures that comes with s3x IN MARRIAGE!
6. You start having s3x in the dream with a known
or unknown person
7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and
powerless after each act.
8. You start getting unsatisfied and wants the real
thing. You fantasize more about s3x and start
longing for the real act.
9. You get a warped view of the opposite s3x. You
see them as s3xual objects and start having s3x
with anything in skirt or trousers -you become
10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.
These and more are the consequences of
masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to
pieces! What then should you do with your s3xual
How do you handle the constant hunger for
1. Avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos,
pictures and hot, romantic movies -they are
powerful s3xual triggers!
2. Avoid friends who say dirty,lewd and obscene
things. Stop all s3xy banters with friends and say
only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful.
3. Get busy with your life, education and career,
there is more to life than s3x.
5. Study the word a lot especially Psalm 119.
When you are filled with the word, you have no
space for the devil and his demons in your heart.
6. Pray to God for help
7. Make friends with godly people.
8. Avoid pornography and romantic movies.
9. Get busy in kingdom service.
Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive
and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are
deeply involved in it.
You can win the fight against masturbation! # Joram Muwonge
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