In my life there girls I have met and I got into a
relationship with, we were so compatible, we had
good and admirable love, we had a lot of fun and
we shared great moments. I prayed for our love
to last forever and I thought we are inseparable.
But guess what? Time came and we fell apart
over small, daft and solvable issues.
Happiness turned into sadness, smiles turned into
tears, promises turned into lies, “I love you(s)”
turned into “I hate you”, sweet names like “my
prince charming, honey pie, sweet pie, babe,
bubu…” all turned into ugly names, sweet words
turned into abuses, great moments turned into
regrets and a great couple turned into strangers!
Honestly, it hurt me a lot back then and it scared
me so much to fall in love again but it gave me
lessons and it made me realize a lot of things in
life. Among the things that I realized are:
1. There is nothing in this world that lasts
forever. Whether it’s sweet love, friendship, or
anything, they all come to an end at some point.
2. People change and things change. They never
stay the same or maintain what they say or start
3. People never appreciate or get enough of what
they have. They always want more and more.
They are really hard to please.
4. People give up so fast. A small argument,
misunderstanding, or rumor makes them give up
easily. They never think twice, they never search
for the truth; they never fight for what they had.
They just let go without thinking twice.
5. People forget so fast. They are easily taken up
by the excitement and love in the new found
relationship. They forget what they had and what
they have been through. They see it as shit or
nothing because of the rough times encountered
in it. They forget that the excitement in the new
found love can also fade away with time and a
relationship becomes a war zone at some point.
6. People aren’t patient at all. They never want to
start their relationship from scratch. They want
already made things; already made pesos, already
made good life and already established people.
They think that’s all it takes to have happy and
7. People aren’t loyal and trustworthy. They
disappoint a lot, they lie, and they pretend, they
give empty promises, they fool around, they are
never open enough and they waste a lot of our
There many others but those are the major ones.
But what does that imply? We need to enjoy what
we have to the fullest while we still have it
because you never know what will happen
tomorrow, we need to appreciate and be
contented with what we have, we need to have
strong hearts and be determined to finish what
we start, we need not to be so excited and taken
up so easily by new sugarcoated things and
forget or throw away what we had or held on for
so long, we need to be patient enough and
constructive, we need to trust but not a 100%,
need to be careful with our fragile hearts and
bodies, we need to learn to forgive and forget, we
need to love but leave a room for
disappointments, we need to be careful with the
people (friends) we share our relationship secrets
and lastly but not the least we need to
commit everything to God and trust Him to lead
Think about it and act accordingly.
Lots of love From me.