When I see young girls without a job talking
marriage I become bothered because my
question is how do you intend to fend for the
child when it comes?I don’t think it’s appropriate
to depend on only the man’s income to take care
of you, your children , his family and your family
too. That is not what I believe marriage is all
about, a lot of people miss the point from the
beginning that is why they face difficulties along
Marriage is TEAMWORK!
True love is giving and receiving too, you do I do.
some mothers have trained their daughters to
believe that the arrival of a husband is the end of
poverty and misery in their lineage. what a pity
and then the lady begins to see the man as a
meal ticket and tomorrow you will complain that
he is not respecting you..
What respect are you talking about when all he
does is slave for you , the children you both have,
his family and your own family too, so let me ask
you what do you have to offer that he can’t get
else where? Food? Sex ? Or more children? Is
that all you can offer? No! Be more!
As ladies I
think we need to FIND ourselves, our feet,find the
balance and purpose first before finding a man, it
is very important. We should strive to be an asset
not a liability, A lot of women who are going
through hell in marriages, and relationships SOME
of the reason they are putting up with such
maltreatment and disrespect is because if they
leave they can’t afford themselves the life they
are getting. But a man who knows with or
without him you can survive will behave 85% of
the time cos he is aware that you’re not there for
his finances,his property but his love and loyalty
because you can afford yours no matter how
little. So the purpose of this is to remind us never
to depend on anybody in totality except GOD !
Even in marriage I believe GOD should be the only
one couples should depend on. If you are hungry
pls fix your hunger, get up and work so that when
it is the time to make life decisions you won’t
make a selfish one because of personal gains.
Don’t sell your future, your happiness for a morsel
of porridge! When you have your own, a man with
money is a bonus not a MEAL TICKET or a
Ladder to upgrade.